What’s the deal with ex girlfriends trying to creep their way back into your life? A few days ago I received a text from my ex girlfriend wanting to get together and “talk”.
We’ve been together for awhile, and one day I asked her to move in with me. This was in April of this year. Things were good. I enjoyed having someone at home that I could talk with and unwind. Someone to do things with, and lets be honest, being able to have sex was a great thing!
My ex wife and I have a great relationship, we talk all the time about our girls, and lots of times, talk just about things in general. My ex girlfriend new this, and didn’t seem to have a problem with it. Memorial day weekend, it was weekend to have the girls. But, I requested Saturday off instead of Sunday so that my ex-wife could get out of the house and away from the situation that she was in. The 5 of us were going to go do something.
We ended up going to the Cleveland Zoo, me, my ex wife, and our 3 girls. Now I don’t see an issue with ex’s doing things together, especially when kids are involved. Well, apparently that is a “taboo”. Ex’s are suppose to hate each other, not get along! At least that’s what I was told.
So my ex-girlfriend was extremely pissed that I hung out with my ex-wife and kids the entire day. Said I was cheating on her, WITH MY EX, and that I lied to her about being at work. First off, I told her I had Saturday off, she seemed to forget that, but since I didn’t tell her again on the day it happened, I lied. After a couple of weeks, things seemed to be going back to normal.
July 3rd, 2009, my father passed. I hate July 3rd more than any other day. It is one of my hardest days to get through. So guess what happened July 3rd, 2019? My ex girlfriend decided to move out!
Talk about a huge stab into the chest and mindfuckery!
So now, she is trying to get with me to “talk”, and get all the feelings out. Just talk, she says. I don’t think I can do that. I’d like to try and think that I could, but I just don’t think I can. She left me, and on the 1 day of the year that I really need someone. But she is so “hurt” because I “lied” to her about doing something with my ex wife and kids. She still has no idea why leaving on the day she left hurt so fucking bad.
So glad she has paid attention to me all this time